Many men visited my trainings and, according to statistics, in the life of each of them there were only 1-2 women whom they could call amazing lovers, and they will remember having sex with them all their lives. And the point is not only in the knowledge of sexual techniques, but also in the understanding of psychological characteristics. These seven important tips will help you become the very lover that a man will never forget and from whom he is unlikely to want to leave.
1. BE HONEST
Men don’t take hints. Communicate with your partners , share impressions and emotions. Especially about what’s going on in bed. If you don’t like something – tell him about it! There is no need to endure and wait for him to figure it out himself.
2. BE RELAXED
Let yourself go, let your man please you . Sex shouldn’t be a favor for a man. Tightness in bed is caused, as a rule, by built-in parenting attitudes, complexes about appearance, and so on. The man reads this, unconsciously squeezes himself and, as a result, stops even trying to please you and moves away. This can lead to sex on the side, and to a complete breakdown of the relationship.
3. DON’T FORGET ABOUT COMMUNICATION IN BED.
I mean those words, sounds and moans that want to escape during sex , but you hold them back. Don’t be shy about expressing your emotions. A man will strive to deliver even more pleasure if he sees such feedback.
4. SHARE YOUR EMOTIONS
Unreasonable mood swings. Men don’t understand what it is! They will never understand which emotional spectrum you have to walk on every day. If, for example, you have PMS – warn your partner in advance, tell us about how you feel and how he can help you. You will see: a man is far from a callous animal, just his emotional world is different from yours.
5. CORRECT ORGASM
It is very important to understand at what point to stop or slow down. If you quit too early, the man’s orgasm will be knocked down, and if you do it hard to the last, painful sensitivity of the head arises. The woman may notice that the man is being pulled back from her by the pelvis. You need to slow down the next time a little earlier than this moment.
6. TAKE AN INTEREST IN THE MAN’S PREFERENCES.
Even if this is not a new partner, periodically ask what the man would like to get from sex this time. This attention to desires is greatly appreciated. And in general, a man is almost never asked about what he likes and what he dreams of, so sincere interest will surely be remembered and set you apart from previous mistresses.